I have to say Im getting apprehensive about certain names coming back
So far everyone is a friend not foe. But It makes me anxious thinking about certain peple that might come back.
If you can, try and approach it with an open mind. Back in the day, the circumstances surrounding some relationships were strained unnecessarily due to a plethora of issues; some valid and some completely ridiculous.
We have all grown since our time together previously and hopefully everyone is adult enough to keep the past in the past and treat each new day as a new day.
The other thing is that no community will ever have a memberslist full of people who love each other. There will always be animosity between some but in those rare cases, it's just better to agree to disagree and move on.
You will not see member bashing or trolling around here or any site I run. I don't like people making other people uncomfortable so we deal with it behind closed doors (where it should be dealt with) and try to reach middle ground.
This has worked for years over at Lifesupporters.com and to date, only 2 or 3 members have ever had to be banned and it was only because of their refusal to take any ownership of their actions and/or cease causing drama toward other people.
...and that's a sensitive, interpersonal site dealing with relationships at all levels. If it can work that well at Lifesupporters it really should be a no-brainer here.